“The beginning of love is
the will to let those we love be
perfectly themselves, the resolution
not to twist them to fit our own image.
If in loving them we do not love
what they are, but only their potential
likeness to ourselves, then we
do not love them: we only love
the reflection of ourselves
we find in them”
- Thomas Merton,
Trappist monk / poet
From his book No Man is An Island
Today is Merton's birthday (b. 1915)...