“Love is about bottomless empathy, born out
of the heart’s revelation that another person
is every bit as real as you are. And this is why love,
as I understand it, is always specific. Trying to love all of humanity may be a worthy endeavor,
but, in a funny way, it keeps the focus on the self,
on the self’s own moral or spiritual well-being. Whereas, to love a specific person,
and to identify with his or her struggles and
joys as if they were your own, you have to surrender some of your self.”